For my first cross stitch projects, I bought two kits. One is an American flag ornament, which I got as a gift to make for my father in-law. The other is more “me” but also not so beautiful that I’d be sad if I messed it up. Basically cute enough to not be an eye sore but not so pretty I’d feel discouraged. Both are objectively low quality, but I felt it wasn’t worth dropping cash just yet before I was certain I enjoyed the hobby.